Hope Versus
Optimism
Which is Better for Your Happy Life?
 Hope
versus Optimism, that is the question. Both hope and optimism are
considered universal virtues across most
cultures and both are vital
behaviors associated with happiness. But does one lead to an
unrealistically sunny view of the world or a vague wish with no
motivation for action more than the other? Which is more important for
a happy life?
What is Hope?
Hope is the desire for something combined with a
belief or positive
expectation that it is possible to have what you want. There is an
element of trust or faith in our notion of hope. In fact, many
linguists believe that the word hope shares its roots with the word
hop, as in leaping in expectation of a good outcome.
In ancient Greek legends, when Pandora opened her box to let
out all
the Gods, hope remained in the box indicating that hope is the
strongest and most powerful of all the gods. In the Christian religion,
hope is one of the three gifts of spirit- faith, hope, and love.
What is Optimism?
The
dictionary definition of optimism is an inclination to put the most
favorable construction upon actions and events or to anticipate the
best possible outcome. It is generally characterized by a belief that
good is stronger or more prevalent than evil or that this is the best
of all possible worlds.
The word optimism comes from the Latin optimus meaning best, which
stems from the root ops meaning power.
In positive psychology, Dr. Seligman defines optimism as the tendency
to attribute permanent reasons for success and temporary reasons for
failure. For example, if I am optimistic and interview for a job and
get it I believe it is because I am skilled and valuable in the work
place. If I do not get the job, I believe it is because I was not a
good fit in that particular work place.
What Hope and Optimism Have In Common
Is it a question of hope versus optimism? Hope
and optimism are often
listed as synonyms for each other. In the VIA Study of Virtues and
Strengths, both are listed together as one of the universal virtues
valued by almost every culture. Both hope and optimism are based in
belief and anticipate a positive outcome. Both are considered powerful
emotions and therefore forces for good.
How Hope and Optimism Are Different
Hope versus optimism; the
differences are subtle. Hope has more of an
element of desire- we hope for things we want to happen. We believe
what we hope for is possible, but there is more of an element of faith.
Optimism has more of an element of confidence- we believe good will
come from the situation, we believe good with triumph over evil in the
end, or that our innate strengths will carry us through. Perhaps hope
is a precursor to optimism in that we must want something and believe
it is possible before we can confidently anticipate it will occur.
Hope Versus Optimism For Your Happy Life
Every strength or power is a
double edged sword that can cause harm
when over-used or used incorrectly. The danger in the overuse of both
hope and optimism is that the person will fail to take action to help
themselves or others either because they simply wish for the best or
because they expect the best.
The hope versus optimism debate centers around which virtue is more
likely to be misused.
In his study of learned helplessness, Dr. Marin Seligman, the author of
Learned Optimism, found that people who felt they had no personal
control over a situation learned to accept their lot in life and did
not take action to help themselves when they could. The virtue of hope
and of optimism is that they keep us moving, keep us in action towards
the thing we desire.
Without hope of a positive outcome or a better
life, we will tend
towards depression, despair, listlessness and helplessness. Studies
also suggest that when we expect something good to happen and focus on
what we want, we are more likely to see how to make our expectation a
reality.
Positive emotions like hope
and optimism enhance our biological
abilities to solve problems and find creative solutions. In the end it
is not a case of hope versus optimism so much as it is hope and
optimism. You can choose the term than resonates most with you, or
choose both terms. Either way, if you cultivate more hope or optimism
in a way that keeps you in action and keeps you focused on what you can
do to influence the outcome you desire you will have a happier life.
Learn more about hope versus optimism on the
learned optimism page.
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